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Spanking is commonly the most widely applied of the BDSM sexual techniques. From a luscious smack on the buttocks to the conventional American birthday spankings or as part of the sexual foreplay, many BDSM people play with spankings.

Many BDSM sites on Intert allow to people practice these BDSM sexual practices where you can meet and analyze BDSM profiles with same interests and others BDSM sexual techniques.

If you think about spanking, most part of the people imagines a man writing as a man punishing a woman, but you could change it to accommodate your taste and be concern of is just a fantasy among consenting adults. 

What is a spanking?

According to, several dictionaries online, spanking means: to strike, commonly on the buttocks, with the open hand or in another way, to slap on the buttocks with a flat object or with the open hand, as for punishment. And for most BDMS people, a good, old fashioned spanking means to have your submissive on your lap, with her bare bottom, round and plump, offered and ready to turn from pink to a furious red, to feel her wriggling against your thighs, hearing her/him asking you to stop.  

Spanking position

First of al, there is no obligatory position for a spanking and there several spanking positions but we describe the traditional position with some sexual techiniques into BDSM movent. The scene starts with the spanked standing at the right of the punisher. You must to take the woman/men lap by herself, or help her by grabbing her right wrist with your left hand and giving her a tug forward for making her fall in place. As very little effort is necessary to make her fall when her thighs hit yours, she will feel overpowered and dominated.

If the spanked is a male, his penis should rest firmly on your thighs, pointing downward and to the left (unless his reaction to the scene precludes this).The spanked should repose with all her weight on the lap of the spanker and depending on her height, her hands and feet can be on the air, or just touching the floor. Your left hand should rest on the small of the back of the spanked, or grabbing her waist. Your left elbow should rest higher on the spanker’s back, if possible between the shoulder blades, for pining her down.  If at any moment her right arm flies back for protection, grab it with your left hand and hold it at the waist or the small of her back and if her legs try come up, a couple of hard slaps on the thighs should be all that is needed to bring them down fast.

Try to assure you that this BDSM sexual technique make the victim keep almost defenseless to increase the sexual desire. Try to change the position performing her upper body rest on another chair, or utilizing a couch or the edge of a bed.

Enjoy spanking and BDSM sexual techniques with care and with out prejudices.